When does depression end?
You know how you hear some people say, “I struggled with depression for 2 years and I’m so much better now!”
I want to know. When does that happen?
When do the cycles of LOW end?
It’s been about 4 weeks since I’ve hit yet another new low as I got laid off unexpectedly and in such a unjust savage way. The cruel way they treated me to make me small and singled out. It’s a different type of sly when a leader is you’re biggest hater.
Maybe I’ve just lost my edge after 18+ years of fulltime investment into my then accelerating career. Then my mental well-being just gave out. It had enough of the hustle and all the trauma unrooting the life of constant survival. The instability that came with the anxiety of abuse. Mental confusion. Being told I’m not good enough in so many ways as if that should have motivated me yet just eventually shattered me.
I lost the fighter in me. I’ve been trying to heal my brokenness for over half a decade and now these are the thoughts to myself:
People are losing respect for you.
You feel it.
So even if you hate it, you have to play again.
Jump back in.
Remind them who you are.
You’ve lived several lifetimes.
You’ve learned so many lessons.
You’ve been through SO much.
You’re continuously learning how to manage healthy mental health so you can start slowly but it’s time to push yourself again.
Bc if not now, when?
It’s time to organize, strategize, execute, and transition back to the hustle of productivity and more growth. Stop just being excessively hard on yourself.
You cannot let them see you like this.
You cannot be the ugly hopeless helpless girl.
You fought for yourself for so long, you’re tired. But buck up- it’s time.
Show up as your best because the little girl that dreamed of so much is counting on you to make it. She has so much trauma it’s really overwhelming but how lucky I used to have the means to seek help. Therapy isn’t easy or cheap and sometimes that only adds to the desperation and urgency to get back to what used to feel so clear and easy.
She worked through so much. She made moves before so we know she can. You can.
You needed the the break. You needed some instability to appreciate what you had.
You had to be humbled. You had to confess your sins. You had to learn that just because you love hard does not mean you get that same love back.
Many took advantage of your kindness so much leaving you to just feel unworthy when you needed them the most.
You cast expectations on others turning into a desperate codependent individual. You needed to break.
You are still broken but now… you have some ready tools.
You’ve grown.
You know it.
Stop the chaos of numbness and CHOOSE to do something to move FORWARD. Remember how lucky you are with still choice and opportunity to go on.
Focus on that.
Time to get that urgency back.
Bc there’s so much to do.
Everyday, something that drove the needles forward. It’s time to push again and pull out the tools you’ve gathered these last 6+ years of healing and unlearning.
Go.
You’re lucky to be here. My brother was taken too soon.
Is this how depression ends?
Idk.